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The asexual spectrum, abbreviated as acespec[1] or ace-spec[2], refers to sexual orientations that are asexual or are closely related to asexuality. Identities under the asexual umbrella are closely connected as part of a broad community.[2][3][4]

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Identities under the umbrella[]

The identities below are listed alphabetically, following asexual itself.

Asexual[]

Asexual Flag

The asexual pride flag

Asexual refers to people who do not experience sexual attraction toward others,[3] as well as people who experience limited or conditional sexual attraction[5] and relate to the label asexual more than other sexual identity terms.[3] They may experience other forms of attraction, such as romantic, sensual, or aesthetic attraction. Asexuality is a sexual orientation,[6] not a behavior, choice, or medical condition. Some asexual people choose to engage in sexual activities for various reasons despite not experiencing sexual feelings and desire toward any particular person.[3][5] Asexuality is part of the asexual spectrum (abbreviated "ace spectrum"), an umbrella term and a broad community of identities that are closely related to asexuality when placed on a spectrum ranging from asexual to allosexual.[3]


Aceflux[]

Aceflux

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Aceflux has two common definitions:[7]

  1. Someone with a fluctuating orientation, and that orientation is always within the asexual spectrum.[2][4][7]
  2. Someone with an orientation that fluctuates between no attraction, some attraction, and a lot of attraction.[7]


Aegosexual[]

Aegosexual

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Aegosexual, also known less commonly as anegosexual[8] and formerly referred to as autochorissexual ("autochoris" means "identity-less"), is a microlabel on the asexual spectrum that describes those who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. The contemporary term is made up of the prefix "a/an-" meaning 'not', "ego" for 'self', and 'sexual'. Hence, "aegosexual" or "anegosexual" literally means "sexual without self". Aegosexuals may have sexual fantasies, view sexual content, or masturbate, but typically feel little to no sexual attraction or desire to engage in sexual intercourse. Many aegosexuals fantasize about sex from a third-person perspective.[2][4][9][10]


Apothisexual[]

Apothisexual

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Apothisexual, which stems from the Greek root "apothisan" meaning 'repulsed', refers to someone who identifies as asexual and finds sex and/or sexual activity to be disgusting or uncomfortable. Individuals who use this term are affected by sex in the media to varying degrees, and may try to avoid its presence altogether. This term should not be confused with 'sex-negative', which means finding sex immoral.[4][11][12]


Autosexual[]

Autosexual or egosexual is a label that refers to someone who mostly or only feels sexual attraction to themselves.[4][13]


Cupiosexual[]

Cupiosexual

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Cupiosexual, derived from "cupio" meaning longing, refers to a person who is asexual or on the asexual spectrum and still desires sexual actions despite not feeling an attraction towards people who'd inspire that desire.[2][4][14] The term originally showed up on forums in 2014. Although cupiosexuals will not experience sexual attraction to their sexual partner, there are a myriad of other reasons a cupiosexual may have sex, such as physical pleasure or a way to bond with one's partner.[15]


Demisexual[]

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The demisexual flag

Demisexual is a term used to describe those who do not experience sexual attraction to others unless they form a strong emotional bond with someone first. Demisexual people may still experience romantic attraction, but until a deep connection is formed, there is no sexual attraction involved. They may have little to no interest in sex and may only experience sexual attraction rarely, but that is not the case with all demisexuals.[16]

Another definition is a person who does not experience primary sexual attraction, defined as sexual attraction that is based on sight, smell, or other instantly available information. In this definition, demisexuals experience secondary sexual attraction after knowing more about the person than just their looks; how much demisexuals need to know about said person and for how long they need to know about them for secondary sexual attraction to develop varies from person to person.[17] After secondary sexual attraction is developed, demisexuals may or may not experience arousal or desire based on the physical traits of the persons they already experience secondary sexual attraction towards; usually they are not only aroused by personality traits.[18][19]

Demisexuality is included on the asexual spectrum, but demisexual people can be gay, straight, bisexual, or any other orientation in addition to being demisexual.[20]


Fraysexual[]

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The fraysexual pride flag

Fraysexual or ignotasexual describe individuals who experience sexual attraction to those whom they do not know very well. For some fraysexual people, they may initially be attracted to another person; however, they find that their sexual attraction fades over time, particularly as an emotional connection is formed.[2][4][21][22] Some fraysexual people have described their sexuality as an "imbalance of morals" that prevents them from being able to engage in sexual acts with any other person close to them.[23][24] Fraysexuality has been considered by some to be the "opposite" of demisexuality.[25]


Gray-asexual[]

GrayAsexual

The gray-asexual flag

Gray-asexual,[26] also known as graysexual or gray-A,[26][27][28][29] is an asexual identity characterized as being "in between" asexual and allosexual; that is, being asexual while also able to experience, or have experienced previously, sexual attraction.[26] People who identify as gray-asexual may experience sexual attraction that is uncommon for the individual, may only be directed toward specific people,[30] occurs infrequently, at low intensity, or in an ambiguous way.[7][31] The term is often included in the asexual spectrum.[32]


Lithosexual[]

Lithosexual, formerly known as "akoisexual", is a term for someone who feels sexual attraction only for those that do not reciprocate those feelings.[2][4][33]


Flag[]

Asexual Spectrum Flag

The asexual spectrum pride flag

While the overall asexual flag is often used to represent the asexual spectrum, there is also a flag design specifically made to represent this spectrum.[4][34] This design was posted to Tumblr on July 25, 2020, by Potion of the Flag Archive blog. It has four equal-sized horizontal stripes, and they suggested the following meanings for the colors: dark blue for community, its history, and solidarity; purple for asexuality in all variations and personal labels, pink for self-determination, pride, and acceptance; cream for diversity in experiences and types of attraction.[35]

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References[]

  1. "All Aromantic Terms" by AUREA on AUREA - Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy (Archived on January 29, 2022).
  2. 2.0 2.1 2.2 2.3 2.4 2.5 2.6 Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity by The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project. Published 2023 by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 9781839976384
  3. 3.0 3.1 3.2 3.3 3.4 "General FAQ" by Asexual Visibility and Education Network on Asexual Visibility and Education Network (Archived on January 8, 2022).
  4. 4.0 4.1 4.2 4.3 4.4 4.5 4.6 4.7 4.8 Amazing Ace, Awesome Aro: An Illustrated Exploration by Victoria Barron. Published 2023 by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 9781839977145
  5. 5.0 5.1 language primer.com/asexual "Asexual" by The Trans Language Primer on The Trans Language Primer (language primer.com/asexual Archived on October 28, 2021).
  6. "Overview" by Asexual Visibility and Education Network on Asexual Visibility and Education Network (Archived on December 17, 2021).
  7. 7.0 7.1 7.2 7.3 The ABC's of LGBT+ by Hardell, Ash. Published 2016 by Mango Media Inc.. ISBN 9781633534087
  8. "Grey-asexuality" on asexuality-handbook.com. Published by Asexuality Handbook
  9. "History of Aegosexuality" by Edha Shirodkar on The Michigan Gayly. Published 2021-02-01 (Archived on February 14, 2022).
  10. https://www.slanglang.net/slang/lgbtq/aegosexual/
  11. "What is Asexuality?" on wp.wwu.edu
  12. "Being an Apothisexual" by Flannigan, Amy Maria on ourqueerstories.com. Published 2015-09-25 by Our Queer Stories
  13. "What Is Autosexual?" by WebMD Editorial Contributors on webmd.com. Published 2021-06-28 by WebMD
  14. "Cupiosexual" by Carina Hsieh on cosmopolitan.com. Published 2020-12-29 by Cosmopolitan
  15. "What Does Cupiosexual Mean? It's One Of Many Asexual Microlabels" by Georgia Davis on womenshealthmag.com. Published 2022-02-24 by Women's Health Mag
  16. "Demisexual" by The Trans Language Primer on The Trans Language Primer
  17. "No lust at first sight: why thousands are now identifying as ‘demisexual’" on theguardian.com. Published by The Guardian
  18. https://bloodandmilk.com/demisexuality-grey-area-asexuality/
  19. https://www.newsweek.com/demisexual-definition-ally-asexual-difference-1603669
  20. "What Is Demisexuality?" on webmd.com. Published by WebMD
  21. "What Is Fraysexuality? The Sexual Orientation, Explained" by Kassel, Gabrielle on wellandgood.com. Published 2021-02-16 by Well and Good
  22. "Savage Love: Lose desire after getting to know someone? You're fraysexual" by Savage, Dan on nowtoronto.com. Published 2021-07-7 by NOW Magazine
  23. "Fraysexuality, Sexless Marriage, and the Love/Lust Split" by Golden Oak on medium.com. Published 2020-01-02 by Medium
  24. "'Once I Start Liking Someone, I Don't Want Sex Anymore': What It's Like Being Fraysexual" by O'Brian, Vanna on pedestrian.tv. Published 2021-02-17 by PedestrianTV
  25. "Fraysexuality" by likeappletrees on asexuality.org. Published 2015-08-03 by Asexuality.org
  26. 26.0 26.1 26.2 The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality [in English] by Decker, Julie Sondra. Published 2014 by Carrel Books. ISBN 978-1-63144-017-5
  27. Understanding Asexuality [in English] by Bogaert, Anthony. Published 2012 by Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc.. ISBN 978-1-4422-0101-9
  28. "Graysexuality: What Does It Mean" on webmd.com. Published 2021-06-29 by WebMD
  29. "So What Does it Mean to be Graysexual" by Dalessandro Santiago, Alyssa on greatist.com. Published 2021-04-20 by Greatist
  30. "What does grey asexuality mean?" by Sheng Teo, Yu on heckinunicorn.com. Published 2021-09-16 by Heckin Unicorn
  31. "What Does It Mean to Be Graysexual? 16 Qs About Attraction and More" by Ferguson, Sian on healthline.com. Published 2019-09-17 by Healthline
  32. "Grey-Asexual" by The Trans Language Primer on The Trans Language Primer
  33. "Everything you need to know about lithosexuality" on livelovelgbtq.wordpress.com. Published 2017-10-26 by Wordpress
  34. Perfectly Queer: An Illustrated Introduction by Barron, Victoria. Published 2023 by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 9781839974083
  35. "Asexual spectrum flag!" by Potion on theflagarchive.tumblr.com. Published 2020-07-25 (Archived on February 21, 2022).
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