ok uh so im asexual but i dont know where i fit specifically. i feel like i can sometimes have sexual attraction but also i dont experience it. i also wouldnt engage in anything sexual with someone else unless im close to them or really interested in them. but i find myself being disgusted at the mention of sexual activity and rather fantasize about it instead. i also dont experience sexual feelings.
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Ok so I've been saying that I'm Panromantic and Asexual for a while. I now realized specifically that i'm graysexual (i forgot if it's spelled with an a or e lol). Ik Panromantic and Asexual is technically still correct, but when I feel sexual attraction (rarely) gender doesn't matter, so pansexual. But what do I call myself?
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I’m quite certain I’m on the AroAce spectrum specifically Grey-AroAce. However what little, infrequent and selective attraction I feel isn’t limited to a singular gender or sex. But I can’t really describe between Omnisexual or bisexual. I resonate with the increasing bisexuality representation in media but I feel like Omnisexual is more accurate. So am I just splitting hairs here?
What is it called when you feel attraction to people of multiple genders but have a preference for men
Thx 😊
First post in here heh.. so anyways, I have been pansexual since November of 2024. However, as time goes by, I’ve been losing interest in women and like barely lost interest in men. Is that a sign of aroace?
So over the past years I do not know what I am 4th grade I was gay up until sixth bisexaul wow I know right 7th Im gay 8 grade I am still gay but now I am a femboy and non binary I do not know what to do with myself guys ugh I am having a crisis guys
I was cis female, then non binary, then trans for a little bit, then back to non binary, and for the past two ish years i’ve been a demi-girl. so over a course of like 6-7 years i’ve pretty much been through it all. i am hyper femme presenting, the only time you will see me in something other that a skirt or dress is when i wear pj pants. i feel like in in this grey area for identity and pronouns though. she/her is fine but it doesn’t feel very me, they/them is okay i guess? i feel like it doesn’t feel me either, he/him is no no, i don’t consider myself masculine. any suggestions about this kind of situation or am i just crazy??
So my girlfriend thinks I might be a lesbian but I'm just very sure right now.
I know that I like women. I've crushed on two men, however I wanted out of the relationship with one of them, and the other I just kinda sometimes have fluctuating feelings. Like I can hate him but then go back to loving him. As for non-binary people, I'm not really sure? I mean it's completely possible. I wouldn't really mind it. It'd be nice to feel attraction to the same gender. But I'm not really sure. I might've fallen for someone of that gender before. Maybe it was limerence. Most men I'm attracted to are fictional and some of them are famous.
I kinda don't care because at the end of the day love is love and I love who I love.
I never did any sorta introducing myself things; so I'll do it now.
Name: Anonhaj
My full screename is Anonymous Blåhaj or Rosahaj. It has always been Catla, but I made that name up right years ago and You can tell. You could figure out what Anon means but haj (pronounced like high) means shark in the Scandinavian languages (Swedish, Danish, & Norwegian). A Blåhaj is also a plush trans icon from Ikea (what more could you want?).
Gender: Cisfem
Pronouns: She/They/He
I'm most used to she/her but gendered pronouns are SO stupid. I'll probably make a post on why later. I'm okay with any linguistically derived pronouns tbh.
Sexuality: Pansexual
Romanticity: Repulsed Aromantic
(don't try anything weird)
My Children:
Sir Hajington (blue Ikea shark) Adopted in January of 2024
Sir Favington (blue Ikea shark) Adopted on 10/1/25
Sir Mildred (pink Ikea shark) Adopted on 8/1/25
What does the term labrys lesbian mean?
can you be hyperromantic and aromantic i feel like i am both but it also seems like it totally goes against it at the same time i mean im pretty sure im aromantic from trauma i dont know where the hyperromanticness came from but everytime i meet someone new i feel attracted to them in a i want to date them kind of way but im reality i dont actually reallt want to date them because of i did id hate it
Hi, I'm Avi and I’m wondering if I’m pan. I’m mainly just looking for tips and advice for finding out if I’m pan or not. I’ve been an ally for as long as I can remember lol. I’ve thought I was straight for years, but now I’m questioning like everything lol and I’m just not sure. My friends T(lesbian and nonbinary), my friend L(genderfluid), and my cousin(gay and genderfluid(I think they’re genderfluid)) are all also trying to figure me out too(my cousin and friends don’t know each other). But even with that help, I still need more bcuz with them we end up taking abt random stuff and be our weird goofy selves lol. Anyways I’d really appreciate the help. 💜💜💜💜💜💜
I have an oc and I'm a little confused about the sexuality.
Can straight people be Non-binary??
so i dont really feel likely i have a gender unless i think about it. i am afab and dint mind being seen as a girl but i do also like to sometimes be perceived as a guy. lots of people have mistaken me as amab and i neverminded it. but im just wondering if theres like a specific label where you only feel a certain gender or something when you think about or something like that?
Hello, I'm Saule!
They/She, nonbinary, panromantic and ace and demiromantic I guess. still not figured out though. (impostor syndromeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee)
Not out anyway. to my friends(and boyfriend but he's demiboy soooooooooo) and school and dad and sis, but not my mom(still have not figured out how to, but she knowssssssss) and rest of my family.
I started on fandom a year ago(I mean it will be a year in two days).
Well... that's all!
Oh, I'm also antisocial and introverted. not through fandom anyway :)
So... yeah idk what to say.
Guess we can talk a little bit?
Hehe
Hi my name is Orchidée and i use they/them/she prounouns.
So in the last year i've been questionning myself a lot about my sexuality and my gender identify and i talk about it with two of my friends that are in the LGBTQIA2+ comunity(one is demi boy and my other friend think that they is non-binary). So we talk a lot about it and one day i come here and see all the gender identify and the sexual orientation so i decide to search and find out that i'm Bisexual/Biromantic and Gender Queer.
I already do my bisexual coming out but not my gender queer so...
Also i am therian, my theriotypes are wolf and cat. :)
Hi everyone!!! My name is Addie and i am a Lesbian. I am very supportive of all genders and prounouns. My best friend is a trans male. Also if you need i can be like a very supppportive older sibling. Also please introduce yourself to me!! also please not e that I am a minor and any flirting over the age of 18 will be denied.
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This is js me rambling abt random stuff thats been on my mind so yeah (for context im transmasc). ok so yesterday my mom cut my hair and i thought it looked rly good!! keyword I. the second my best friend saw it she burst out laughing for like a minuite straight💔 also im scared bc september is in like 4 months and im coming out to him in september🙁 so yeah thats scary. also another thing about my appearance i have pretty dark dirty blonde hair so it looks kinda brown and i have circle glasses so a kid in my p.e class said i looked like harry potter💔 also best compliment ive gotten in a while: a kid said i dont look like [my deadname] (a very female name), and now i look like [masc version of my name] it was a homo/transphobic kid who wasnt necissarrily trying to compliment me but still. bye bye now ig
It didn't go well at all. He didn't support me but he didn't really support me in anything anyway so I wasn't really surprised. We're talking about a very religious Christian conservative man here. So I'm not surprised about this outcome.
I am safe. He did not threaten to harm me. He continues to say the wrong pronouns but I am perfectly fine where I am. My mother supports me though, so that's good.